Happy Mother's day

I guess some of you are walking around the mall at this time thinking what to buy for your mum on her special day rite?? Last minute shopping and start thinking what is mummy's favorite thing. And fret not, I'm one of those people except I know what to get for my mum.

Mother's day is a yearly thing and some of you think that it is just another ocassion but not for mothers. This is the day where she put hopes that all her children [including those who has 12 kids] will come and sit at the round table, having a nice dinner together. Most mothers will not ask her kids what have they bought for her. If you notice, the first thing she'll do when she sits down at the dinner table is either scooping the dishes into her children's plate instead of hers first, or ask how much of rice do you want? And then cnntinue eating. You don't notice those actions, don't you?? Nevermind...

When you were young, you couldn't wait to get out of the house and living independently right? So did I..But eventually, you'll missed home and when mummy knows that you're coming home, she'll call you and ask what would you like to eat so that she can cook for you...The irritating part is when your 'young' blood starts to kick in. You became rebellious and a constant pain in the ass to your mum but she did not even think that is a burden instead she thinks that it is still her responsibilities to take of you no matter how you've become. You keep asking yourself 'Why does she likes to nag alot?'. In fact, she don't want to coz it is tiring..

One thing I learnt from my mum is no matter how your mum has changed, or no matter what she has become, her blood still runs in your body and that is the fact you can't change. So no point saying 'From now onwards, you're no longer my mum' when you're angry. So just save your energy and shut up...

To those who didn't have a 'good' bond with you mum all this while, this is the chance for you to make things better between you and your mum. To those who hates his/her mum for becoming or did what she has done in order to protect her kids, it is time for you to forgive them. To those who compare their mum and other people's mother, be thankful that you still have a mother instead of the orphans who doesn't have or worst never even know who their mother was.

While you can still see your mum's number on your cellphone, or still can hear your mum's nagging, or still can see her wrinkle face, appreciate her coz you don't know when are you gonna lose her...

Happy Mother's Day, Mummy...We love you no matter how bad or naughty we were....

Love Dianah and kakak